Why do people especially men care if someone forgives a cheating partner
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So I cheated on my boyfriend due to among other things struggles with drug addiction and mental health but i am passed that and he has forgiven me and in turn I have done so much for him and we have a great relationship
when he posted we were back together on his social media he had tons of people come out of the woodwork to tell him not to take me bac and I was a worthless woman that deserved no rights
But why ? It can't be genine concern for him because these guys hadn't talked to him in years and weren't there for him when he posted about my infidelity previously
He also had a few girls come out of the wood work which you would think would be an attempt to date him but it ca't be that agian they had like 6 months we were broken up they could have done it then
Yo usupport anythign between 2 consenting adults. Why is it rong to forgive the one you love ?
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So I cheated on my boyfriend due to among other things struggles with drug addiction and mental health but i am passed that and he has forgiven me and in turn I have done so much for him and we have a great relationship
when he posted we were back together on his social media he had tons of people come out of the woodwork to tell him not to take me bac and I was a worthless woman that deserved no rights
But why ? It can't be genine concern for him because these guys hadn't talked to him in years and weren't there for him when he posted about my infidelity previously
He also had a few girls come out of the wood work which you would think would be an attempt to date him but it ca't be that agian they had like 6 months we were broken up they could have done it then
Yo usupport anythign between 2 consenting adults. Why is it rong to forgive the one you love ?
To be fair, they're not messaging you. Their messaging your boyfriend. Different people get different advice.
People's Friends see red flags, and they want to tell their friend about it before they get into more trouble. That's normal human behavior.
Of course, you can prove, through a lifetime of good deeds and work, that you're the exception. And I look forward to having a happy and committed life. But people will be doubtful, and that's okay. Even if they never say it, they're still thinking it. So it's good that this is all out there in the public.